Certain things are important during sex. Communication is one of them. Foreplay is another. Okay, so it isn’t as high a priority for some people, but in many cases it is essential. Without decent foreplay, you might find that the sex is a bit shit. Blunt? Yes. True? Also yes.
The point of sex is to have an orgasm, right? Wrong! Yet this is how many of us have sex. We want to feel good, and what feels better than an orgasm? Not very much, so we tend to rush through things rather than taking our time to tease our partner.
A number of women struggle to reach orgasm during sex. It is, unfortunately, one of the things that happens… but that doesn’t mean you can’t change it. A lot of those women struggling to cum confess that spending more time on foreplay makes it more likely… but how can you make yourself dedicate more time to foreplay?
Sex feels amazing. There is no denying that. Whenever we get the time we will jump at the chance to fuck. Whether we want to go hard and fast in a quickie or slow and teasing for a truly sensual time, we love having sex. And then we get onto the topic of foreplay.
Sometimes, foreplay can get really boring. We’ll do the same few things over and over and find that it is becoming very dull very quickly. A quick bit of tongue action and jumping into sex doesn’t always work, but finding something different that works for you can be tough.
If you don’t spend enough time on foreplay when it comes to sex, you’ll find that it just doesn’t seem as fun or passionate. We get that foreplay can seem like to goes on forever, but it is a vital part of sex. It not only helps to get your partner in the mood, but it also helps you learn just what kind of touches they like and where they like them. A lot of people choose to use foreplay sex toys to help them out in bed when they have no idea what they are doing.
Performing a striptease can be the ultimate form of foreplay. Not only will it really get your partner in the mood, but the slow dancing and revealing your own body can be a huge turn on for you as well!
In the age of night shifts, overtime, and a generally hectic routine – the pressure is on to fit in as much as we can into the little free time we have. Sex, however, is not somewhere to cut corners! So it’s time to slow down the pace and re-learn to enjoy foreplay. If you’re lost for ideas, or find the idea of foreplay a disinteresting prelude to sex, then it’s time to consider introducing some gifts and games into the bedroom.