ORAL SEX

Sometimes the court system shocks you just as much as the crime itself. Such is the case with the Oklahoma court ruling that declares oral sex is not rape if the victim is unconscious or inebriated. The court dismissed a case involving allegations that a 17-year-old boy sexually assaulted a 16-year-old girl who was reportedly unconscious. What you read is right even though it’s wrong. Not only did a court of law heinously fail a victim seeking justice, but it also infected the public opinion of what’s morally appropriate and acceptable.

Oral sex isn’t rocket science. It might seem it, but this is because every woman is different. Each pussy reacts in a different way to each lick, stroke, and touch. That can make finding out what works for her incredibly difficult, but with time, patience, and the use of some great tips, you’ll soon be on your way to giving her an amazing oral sex orgasm.

Getting a blowjob is one of the hottest things around. Seeing your sexy lady sink to their knees before you, grinning as they lick their lips and move their mouth towards your cock is a turn on for so many. When it comes to oral sex, people seem torn between the different types, pitting a covered BJ against the feel of lips on bare skin. It is always OWO versus covered oral.

If you really want to impress a sexy lady in the bedroom, the best thing that you can do is show you have the skills to get them to orgasm during oral sex. Most women struggle to get to orgasm through penetration alone, so a little foreplay can go a long way. However, plenty of people have trouble doing this because the oral sex tips they’ve been given are actually wrong.

If you don’t spend enough time on foreplay when it comes to sex, you’ll find that it just doesn’t seem as fun or passionate. We get that foreplay can seem like to goes on forever, but it is a vital part of sex. It not only helps to get your partner in the mood, but it also helps you learn just what kind of touches they like and where they like them. A lot of people choose to use foreplay sex toys to help them out in bed when they have no idea what they are doing.

Oral sex is not only a great prelude to sex, but it is the real deal in many cases. Your partners can blow your mind with their oral techniques, right? But how about when they do it completely wrong? Or when you mess up?

A surprisingly large number of people get fingering wrong. You might be wondering “how do you get something as simple as moving your fingers in and out of a sweet pussy wrong?” but that’s just the thing. People think it is very simple, when actually it takes a little more than just thrusting your fingers until they squeal to get them to come.

Sorry gentlemen, but as a woman I can tell you that a lot of you tend to make the same mistakes during oral sex. You’ll try your hardest, give it your all, and yet what you have learnt throughout the years through experience and watching porn just doesn’t cut it and we don’t get to have that moaning, groaning, screaming your name out so the neighbours know exactly what is going on kind of orgasm that we were hoping for. Bummer.

The most romantic gesture you can make towards a man, is giving him a blow job. OK, this might not be true for everybody, but most men prefer being surprised with a crazy blow job than with a fancy dinner.

Oral sex is as important for a woman as it is for a man, even though the blowjobs seem to be more “advertised”. That’s only because men talk about their sex life more than women. Also, most men have no idea what’s going on between a woman’s legs and that makes it harder for them to pleasure her with oral sex.