BDSM: it’s a buzz-phrase we see being thrown around a lot these days. Unfortunately, there are still a lot of misconceptions about it, the biggest one being that all men who are BDSM submissives are also pussies.
We all have those naughty thoughts about the kind of kinky things that we want to try out in bed, but trying to figure out which fantasy is the one that we should try can be difficult. It can be made even more challenging to figure out what kind of thing your partner might like in the bedroom, as it is always so much more fun to share a fuck fantasy with someone who wants to try it out just as much as you do.
As much as we might hate the series, the Fifty Shades books and films have well and truly brought BDSM into the spotlight. While bored housewives around the world are thrilled to be reading about Christian Grey’s antics in the red room with Anastasia, the rest of us are horrified at the things we see described on the pages, and we can’t wait to put them down.
What happens in a sex dungeon stays in a sex dungeon, or so you would think. However, it seems that what has been happening in a sex dungeon in London has caused a little trouble, as neighbours complained to the police about the sounds they heard coming from it.
Confession time: I really enjoy BDSM. In one of my relationships the guy I was dating was really into it. In fact, he was in to a lot of things, and dominating was probably the tamest of them all.
The film ’50 Shades of Grey’ is coming out this weekend. Couples all over the world will be flocking to see it and then leaving with new ideas of things to try in the bedroom. They’ll venture out in search of the perfect items for their bondage fun.