VANILLA SEX

What do you think the norm is when it comes to sex? For most of us, we imagine vanilla sex. Vanilla sex has a reputation as ‘boring’. We think of it as the default of sex. You get into either the missionary or cowgirl position. If you are feeling spicy, you might go for doggy style to mix things up.

Where you are from in the UK can influence the way that you are quite heavily. For example, whether you call it a bread roll, a teacake, or a bap tells people where you come from. And it seems that this isn’t the only way where you’re from can change you. In fact, it seems that how sexually adventurous you are could be influenced by the city you’re in!

If you say to someone that you are getting a little fed up of your boring sex life, they might suggest you try something new. However, most of these suggestions fall firmly into the world of BDSM. BDSM isn’t for everyone. In fact, there are plenty of people out there who prefer to have vanilla sex instead.

Not everybody likes kinky sex. Sure, BDSM might seem like a nice idea, but the idea of actually giving your partner such control over you in the bedroom just isn’t a turn on for some. Some people enjoy nothing more than vanilla sex, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Sex is different for every person. You might enjoy nothing more than hard and fast sex, but your partner might prefer something a little more intimate. Sometimes, we want to try something a bit kinkier, exploring sex outside of our comfort zones to see what it feels like. For plenty of people, they won’t ever be that adventurous in the bedroom. After all, they know what they like when it comes to sex, and if they like vanilla sex then there is nothing wrong with that, right?