Too Loud? How To Keep Sex Quieter
July 24, 2015
There is no bigger turn off in bed than someone being a little too loud. It could be that they are really enjoying you fucking them, but it also makes you wonder if they are faking it.
Lately there have also been plenty of reports about the police being called to homes because neighbours have complained about the loud screams coming from the house, only for the police to find out it was a couple having very loud sex.
If you are eager to avoid finding yourself in this situation, where you are all left red-faced and no longer in the mood for sex, we have some great tips of how to keep sex that little bit quieter, which still keeping it fun.
Make it a game
An old housemate of mine had a girlfriend who was very VERY loud in bed. It got to the point where we would all go out for the night if we knew she was coming over, as the noise was so unbearable. The problem was, he didn’t want to say anything to her in case it put her off sex completely.
If you have ever been in this situation, or the person you are seeing makes a lot of noise, here is some great advice for you – turn it into a game.
By making it a game and turning the entire noise thing into a challenge, it adds a level of excitement and anticipation to it. It might not make them silent in bed, but it might help to keep the noise down for them.
Tell them how much it turns you on to hear them trying to be quiet so that no-one else knows what is going on. Say that seeing them biting their lips to try and keep quiet while you fuck them hard makes you want to go harder and faster and make them scream. They will then make the effort to keep the noise down and see how far you can push them, which is fun for you while also saving your ears!
Kissing shouldn’t be forgotten
Another good method of keeping it quiet while you are having sex is to kiss. Pressing your lips against each other in a passionate French kiss will help to muffle the noise and keep your mouth occupied, which can help to lessen the pleasurable screams you or your partner is making.
Obviously, in order to do this you should choose sex positions where you are facing each other and you are close together. Don’t get into doggy style and then realise that you want to keep things down, as starting and immediately wanting to move might not work out well for you.
A good position for this is if you sit up on the bed and get your partner to climb on top. She can control how hard and fast she rides your cock, but you can also hold her to not only slow her down, but also to kiss her. The passionate kisses will help to bring you closer together, and will feel amazing as you bring her to orgasm again and again.
Oral sex
Many women struggle to reach orgasm through sex alone, and if you find she is making a lot of noise when you are licking her wet pussy, there are some things that you can do to keep her quiet. One of the more obvious methods is to get into sixty nine position.
The 69 position is great because, not only are you pleasuring her with your tongue, but she will also be able to suck on your dick. It is a fun position because of the pleasure you get from it, but it is also ideal for those having trouble keeping their partner quiet. After all, it is hard to talk with your mouth full.
As her mouth is occupied while you give her orgasms with your tongue, she won’t make as much noise, and the feeling of her moans around your hard cock will bring you closer to the edge in no time at all.
Pillows are great
Some people are aware of how much noise they make in bed, and will go to great lengths to stop themselves making too much. A great method for a quick fix is to just grab a pillow and bite down. It will be a huge turn on for you to see your partner suddenly grab a pillow as they get louder and muffle their screams of pleasure into it, and it also means they can be as loud as they need to be, as the pillow will dull most of the noise.
However, if you don’t like the idea of your favourite pillow taking a beating, you could try some other things. Underwear, towels, and even t-shirts can be used to muffle the noise during sex, and as you will have some (clean) ones to hand, it is a great way of doing it.
The kinkier among you might want to go further and turn your partner’s noise into submission. A gag works well for this, and it ties into the fantasy of forcing them to be quiet while you make them cum over and over again. Try it out and see how long it takes before you just want to fuck them as they are kept quiet by the gag.
Got some other great tips for keeping the noise down while having sex, or do you have some interesting stories to share about the noise you make in the bedroom? Let us know in the comment box below and join in the discussion.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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