If you ask some people, certain things get better with age. Wine, whiskey, and women are just a few of them. Age is a wonderful thing, enhancing all of the abilities that we have and making them better. You learn a lot through the years, and that is why so many people think that mature women are better in bed… but are they really?
It is a debate pretty much as old as time itself. Are mature women better in the bedroom than their younger counterparts, or do young women have the edge when it comes to sex? Here on the Escort Sweden blog we take a look at why so many want to fuck an older woman, and why some feel young women don’t live up to the hype.
Practice makes perfect
The more sex you have, the better you are at it. Or at least, that is the logic that a lot of people apply to mature women. These women will have had a lot more sex than their younger counterparts. Some might have been married, and so share experience with one long term partner. Others might simply have enjoyed the company of others.
To put it simply, they will probably have had more sex than younger women. This means that they have more experience in the bedroom.
Of course, this experience might not always be good. They might have had some terrible partners in the bedroom who just didn’t know how to please them. However, this ties in quite nicely to the next advantage of mature sex.
They know what they want
When you are younger and still learning the ropes when it comes to sex, you might just go along with something, even if it isn’t doing anything for you. You don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. However, older women know that the only way you will learn is if they tell you what they want.
They have had enough time in the bedroom to know exactly what it is they want from sex. They know how to get it and, if you seem to be missing the mark, they won’t be afraid to give you a little direction.
Basically, they are confident enough to do what most people are afraid of. They can talk about sex and be honest about whether sex was good or not, all because they want to help make it better in the future. They don’t take it personally or say it to cause upset. They just want to make sure sex goes the way that it should and that it ends with a mind blowing orgasm.
They know what men want too!
I don’t know about you, but the first few times I had sex or did anything remotely sexual in the bedroom, it was awful. I didn’t know what I was doing. It just felt clumsy, awkward, and strange. Over the years, I’ve had time to shag a lot more, so it no longer feels that way.
Now just imagine how much better it would be if you had sex with a mature woman. She has already been through the awkward and clumsy sex stage. She’s been through the “I’m acting like I know it all but I really don’t” stage. Now she is, quite comfortably, in the “I can make you feel amazing” stage.
She will know exactly what you want in the bedroom, and not only that, but she’ll also know how to give it to you. She’ll know just what to do to leave you feeling amazing, and if something isn’t working for you, you can easily tell her without her getting upset. She’ll take your advice on board and then use it, leaving you feeling fantastic.
They love their bodies
When you get older you start to realise that all of the little things that bother you in life don’t matter. Magazines might insist that you have to be slim, tall, and beautifully tanned to get a man, but older women know better. They know that they have what men want.
They have come to love their bodies. They have accepted all of their flaws, which is something that a lot of people struggle with.
They are confident in their own bodies and their ability to have an amazing time in the bedroom. It leaves them feeling sexy, and this is something we can see. It makes us want them even more.
The age that women feel sexiest
If you ask some people who the sexiest people are, they might say those in their twenties. However, a recent study of 2,000 women has proven that this just isn’t true, as they asked the women when they felt sexiest.
It seems that those in their 30s “feel more attractive than in any other decade”, and that as you get older, you feel much more attractive and sexier. Further data from the study suggests that you continue to feel sexy well beyond your thirties and forties… a huge win for the older women!
So not only do we find mature women sexier, but science has also proven that they feel sexier than any other.
Time is on the side of mature women
What gives women this advantage? Well, to put it simply, it is time. They have had time to hone their skills in the bedroom, so they know what they want in the bedroom and how best to get it, all while giving their partner what they want as well.
Mature women are by far some of the sexiest that you can spend some time with, and if you can impress them with your skills, you are on to a winner.
Not sure how to? Take a look at our five oral sex tips to get her off and see what you can learn. You might just pick up some great new tricks to try on her in the bedroom.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.